Persona

Let’s know what adultery is first. We know that making relations after marriage with someone else is against the law, if a husband finds his wife making relation with some other man, where the man knows that she is married, then he can file a case against him but not against his wife, he can give divorce if he wants. But if the wife finds her husband making relation with someone else she can’t file a case.

In simple we can say adultery means extra marital affairs or cheating on your partner. Below I have mentioned the sections which are abolished-

Section 497 gave a husband the exclusive right to prosecute his wife’s lover. A similar right was not conferred on a wife to prosecute the woman with whom her husband has committed adultery.

Secondly, the provision did not confer any right on the wife to prosecute her husband for adultery.

Section 198(2) the criminal procedure code allowed a husband to bring charges against the man whom his wife has committed adultery.

And now after the abolishment of section 497 and 198(2) adulteries will not be a crime and the court will not see it as criminal offence. Adultery is legal now if it is done with his or her concern. Of course, the other partner can divorce but can’t prosecute them.

However, if any of the partner can’t handle the sentiment and got depressed and commits suicide then court will find the other partner also responsible for this in some way.

What does freedom mean to you. Freedom means different to different persons, I asked some people what freedom means to them and the answers were surprising. Everyone is fighting for his or her freedom maybe it is freedom from their boring daily routine, freedom from their stress, freedom from relationships, freedom from their college lectures and other countless things. I loved all the answers but some of them forced me to think, where are we going. So, I decided to discuss only those.

Anjali (45) says: I want freedom from my father and mother in law. They are so much demanding, they never do something on their own, these oldies have irritated me a lot. I can’t handle their needs, they should do their work themselves. God please call them as soon as possible.

This hurts me, this should not be the behavior of any daughter in law. Have you ever said that last line if they were your own parents, you should treat them as your own.

Anmol (21) says: I think there should be a total freedom of drugs, alcohol, cigarette, at least after 18. So that we can enjoy, why do government bans drugs and alcohol, this is the time to enjoy.

Yes, this is the time to get cancer also, due we really need all these to enjoy. I have seen people enjoying without them also.

Jay (32) says: freedom from the dowry system, I’m facing a lot of problems in finding a good family for my sister. All of them demand for high dowry and I don’t have that much, what should I do i'm helpless.

Yes, dowry is still practiced in India, this is disappointing, but this is true that people don’t se talent here in India if they are shown money.

Sneha (20) says: freedom to dress as I like, my family does not allow me to wear shorts, backless top. I want to look hot and sexy so, every boy notices me in a second.

Well, I don’t think it is the only way to look better, and if someone’s parents don’t like that dress why don’t we respect their decision. Is it so compulsory to attract boys with short dresses that this comes in your freedom list?

Riya (27) says: can we enjoy our life, can we roam on the streets without any fear, can we go home safely in nights after our office hours, can we please have the freedom to travel alone in bus or locals without being touched or commented in negative way.

These lines were so touchy, we have become the monsters. Even our own mothers and sisters are afraid of us, is that so difficult to improve ourselves.

I bet you know some other meaning of failure, what does failure mean to you loss, flop, stoppage but I think the real meaning of failure is try once more. Don’t think about failure think about why you want to succeed, what was the reason to start and what new can you do this time. Some personalities were so engaged in thought of success that they never think about failure. The failure stories of them are unbelievable, for them neither failure means anything nor success, they just keep doing their job. And they proved giving up is an option.

Here are some of the failures who changed the meaning of failure. These stories are brief insights of their work.

Jack Ma

He was one of the biggest failure, he applied ten times for Harvard business school and failed, he went for police job but got rejection, he also went for a job in KFC and you will be amazed to know that among 24, 23 got selected except him and not only this he almost appeared in 30 interviews and got rejected every time. This can be too much to break down anyone but Jack was not one of them, god had some other plans for him.

In April 1995 he started his first company with his wife and a friend that was dedicated to developing websites for other companies. After that in 1999 he started Alibaba with 18 friends and after that everyone knows. Today he is the richest person of china and among top rich people in the world.

Chris Gardner

His life was not easy since beginning, he does not even know who his father was and after he grew up a little his mother also got in jail in the crime of trying to burn his stepfather. He also got addicted to drugs and alcohol during his adulthood. After that he started selling some medical tools in city and he was hardly earning 8000$ and it was very less to serve his wife and son, he was also arrested for 10 days for not paying some parking fees, when he returns from jail he found that his wife alog with his son has left his house.

One day he met a man in Ferrari and asked about his job, he came to know that he was working as a stock broker, and at that point of time he decided to become a stock broker. And he started learning about stocks. One days his wife came and handed his son to him, it became more difficult for him now to manage the food and shelter for both. It’s hard to believe that they had spent their so many nights in the bathroom of church. Now Chris Gardner is a famous motivational speaker, investor, philanthropist and he had given motivational speeches in more than 50 countries.

Thomas Edison

He was a very dumb student in his school times and he attended school for very short period, one day he came with a letter from school and then onwards his mother started to teach him in home. He was also facing hearing problems in childhood which turns him almost deaf when he became adult. He also sells newspapers in train.

After some time, he started to do experiments in his basement and you will be shocked to know that he failed 1000 times before he invented electric bulb, I mean 100 times is more than enough to give up on any idea, but he believed in his idea and tried more than thousand times. He said that I have not failed, I have founded thousand ways in which it cannot be done, and he never looked back then, he also had patent of more than 1000 inventions, this is a huge number to astonish anyone. After his mother passed away one day he found that letter from his school written that your son is not suitable for this school as he is very dumb please teach him at home.

There are thousands of stories like these because there are thousands of people who have tremendously created these, if thousands of can do then why not you. I hope this blog has motivated you a little.

Eyes are the most precious gift we have been provided by god. All the beautiful things in this world are worthless without our eyes. We can enjoy the divine look of mountains to the oceans, we can have the glimpse of life under water or in the air, we can take a look of our loved ones or the one who loves us, all with these priceless pair of eyes.

It can’t be denied that these days due to our work, extra busy life, phones, computers and spontaneous routine we are damaging our eyes a lot. Earlier very few people were using spectacles but now there are even children under 7-8 are using glasses, may be due to some genetic reasons or video games, we are destroying our eyes.

So, I request to give at least 5-10 minutes of your day to exercises which can repair the wear and tear of your eyes up to some extent. Some of the tips are mentioned below:

1.Wash your eyes with cold water

Washing your eyes with cold water removes all the dirt from your eyes and relaxes the muscles of the eyes, do it with water filled in your mouth it helps to open your eyes properly.

2.Rub your palm and put on your eyes gently

Rubbing your palm will create some heat and placing it on eyes relaxes the muscles and helps to repair the damaged cells of eyes.

3.Rotate your eyes

Rotate your eyes in circular motion in both directions 15-20 times, it helps to adjust focus of the eyes properly. When we look at our mobile or desktop screen for a longer time eyes start losing it’s focus so it is very important to recover that.

4.Green and leafy vegetables

Now a day our taste has shifted from the traditional foods and we prefer more fast foods, Chinese foods, and we don’t want to eat green vegetables. Take a good diet not only for eyes but for whole body fitness and vitamin A rich food likes carrot, radish is very essential for our eyes.

5.Try to avoid screens for a longer time

In the era of technology, it is difficult to make a distance from mobiles and computers but take short breaks in between your work.

6.Massage tour eyes

No, don’t rub your eyes directly, keep your fingers on the both sides of eyes massage gently, it will help your eyes to recover fast.

7.Take a good amount of sleep

Generally a human need 6-8 hours of sleep, it not only gives our eyes rest but also to our body and brain, while sleeping don’t put your arms on your eyes it can harm your eyes.

When we talk about improvement it’s not an easy task, it takes a lot of time and patience. Improving is a daily task, we can’t wake up a morning and say that I’ve improved my all bad habits. There are some ways in which we can try to improve ourselves and these are helpful too. I hope these will you to become a better human being.

I would like end it here, believe in god  whom so ever you follow, because every religion teaches the same truth.

This isn’t just a story, it’s a hope of a little boy. I would have never known the real value or what can be done with three thousand rupees if I haven’t met this cute little balloon seller.

I was on the road waiting for the signal to turn green on my bicycle when a balloon seller boy approached me.

Boy – brother do want a balloon, it will look good if you tie it on your bicycle.

Me – no, thanks.

Boy – ok

(he doesn’t go, he was looking my bicycle from the corner of his eyes. And after a while he approached me again.)

Boy – how much does this bicycle cost you.

Me – three thousand.

Boy – I also want to buy a bicycle like this.

Me – then why don’t you buy, ask your father to buy for you.

Boy – my father is no more, but I’m collecting money for it.

Me – so, how much have you collected till now.

Boy – 720 rupees.

Me – it’s very less, it will take you a long to collect 3000.

Boy – yes I know but I have to give money sometimes to my mother, when she can’t go to work.

Me – what does your mother do?

Boy – my mother wash dishes and clothes in neighbors house.

Me – oh, and why do you want a bicycle.

Boy – so that I can sell newspapers also with balloon, I tried once but the bundle of newspapers was very heavy. I will also help my mother to bring water and vegetables for house with it, she has to carry water bucket for 2 kilometers. I don’t want her to work in houses which are very far, she has joint pain.

(I was just looking at his his innocent and cute face, he was just 8 or 9. The signal turned green, I bought two balloons from him and said good luck and bye.)

Then I took u turn towards my home and thought why did I fight with my mother for just a new matching bicycle helmet, when I have one already at my home.

I reached home and returned the money back and said sorry to her. If you eat three times a day and you have a house to live then you are lucky. We should value what we have.